At St. Francis Xavier, we use a family model for religious education. Parents and children learn together! Each year, a particular theme is covered – this year we are studying Morality. We will explore how to live a moral life according to the teaching of Jesus and the Church. We will examine the Seven Deadly Sins and learn how they lead us to break the Ten Commandments and prevent us from living the Beatitudes.
Once a month, parents and children come to church and experience the information on their own level. Then, together as a family, they complete two lessons at home which expand on what they learned at church. The home lessons include video clips, games and worksheets that are done together. Where the information is too difficult for younger students, a simpler activity is provided. However, in most cases the information is presented in such a way that parents can simply explain it to their younger children. The home lessons are fun and interactive, providing a family friendly way to learn or review the truths of the faith.
In addition to the educational aspect, the program also includes a service and prayer component. Together, these form a “head-hands-heart” model that has proven to help form healthy, well-rounded Christian disciples. We know that unless knowledge of the faith draws us closer to Christ and to serving His people, it simply remains academic and ultimately can become prideful. Resources for the service and prayer components are provided to parents along with a binder of home lessons.
In 2005, Family Centered Faith Formation won the Mustard Seed Award, a national award bestowed by the National Catholic Education Association for the excellent way it incorporates parents in the faith formation of their children.
When families are new to this approach, they sometimes have questions. Here are answers to those most frequently asked:
- How much time will this take?
- What textbooks will my children use?
Although textbooks are not used, be assured that the material is derived from many reliable sources, including the Catechism of the Catholic Church, the Scriptures, Church documents and various reference tools all approved and sanctioned by the Catholic Church.
- Will there be homework assignments?
- Will I be with my children the whole time during the monthly church sessions?
In April, after the opening presentation, the families will go to the lower level to experience a large group interactive workshop, so that month parents and children will remain together the entire class time.
- What if our family does not complete the two home lessons?
The program is only successful if families are committed to doing the home lessons. The diocese requires 30 hours per year of religious education…gathering at church for 1 ½ hours each month will not meet that requirement. The home lessons complete the remainder of the 30 hours.
However, if a health or emergency situation arises that makes it impossible to do the work at home in a timely manner, please contact the director to discuss arrangements for catching up.
- How much service is required of the families participating in the program?
Two report sheets are included in the back of the binder. Families are asked to document their service experiences and return these sheets at the end of the year.
- And the prayer component…?
Families are also expected to attend Mass every week. What a blessing the Mass provides for us to be united with Christ in the Eucharist! He offers us his Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity; how can we ignore his offer? A set of Mass Cards is in the back of the binder to be used to help your children prepare for Mass and also encourage a family dialogue about the homily. Just cut out the cards and leave them in your glove compartment. On the way to Mass, read the front of the card. After Mass, on the way home, discuss the questions on the back. Completed Mass Cards should be brought to Church each month to be entered in a monthly drawing.
This year we are also providing a handy resource you and your family may use at Mass that gives the prayers and responses and also an explanation of what is taking place. If you reverse the booklet, you will find a summary of many of our Catholic beliefs and rituals.
We hope this will be an enjoyable experience for your family, filled with memories that will be treasured for years to come. As your children grow into adulthood, it will be a joy to see them appreciate and consult their faith in their decision making. Hopefully, you will see the fruits of your commitment as they pass on the Catholic faith to their own families someday.